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image class="left" url="http://media5.picsearch.com/is?aw6ixN96wGJZyacBkZb9twtGaqnXJOIvQPJhxKAlBOM&height=243"Watching pornography just isn't inherently harmful to men or women. But I would offer some caveats. There are actually folks who probably shouldn’t view porn, like those with poor body image or many who have been sexually victimized. Based on your decision in viewing, you can develop unrealistic expectations about sex or what people like or how you’ll be expected to “perform.” And watching with someone requires true consent.

When none of these red flags are up, pornography can certainly have benefits. Counselors sometimes suggest it to help people become at ease with a particular fantasy they or their partner may have. Pornography can reboot a couple’s sex life. It can give you ideas, or help you get in touch with what turns you on.

Pornography can reboot a couple’s sex life. It can give you ideas, or help you to get in touch with what turns you on.

Porn can deliver you there at best, or disgust you at worst. All of it depends on what you choose to watch. With the supply of porn online, it’s possible to sample enough porn quickly that you don’t have to find yourself watching wall-to-wall hard-core sex if it’s plot driven erotica that appeals to you. You’re only a victim of bad porn if you let yourself be.

And also a word about sex or porn addiction. I don’t believe in it. Unlike a chemical substance, like opiates, you can’t become “addicted” to sex or porn; you may be a compulsive viewer. Within this case, it’s not the porn that’s the problem; it’s the compulsive personality. If it weren’t porn being used to act out one’s compulsive nature, it could be food or some other behavior.

As for whether it’s harmful or beneficial to the performers, let’s take women first. You will find some who choose to perform given that they like sex a great deal and they consider it a great way to earn a living. Then you'll find folks who are drawn to porn as a way of acting out subconscious psychological issues - looking for daddy’s love or punishment for being a bad girl. Videos For Adults Online (More methods) many, it’s probably a little of each. Even women with the most effective mental health will face some downsides from this work. Our culture consumes porn at record numbers, although the women who perform are still judged harshly.

I’m not sure the male performers get out completely unscathed either. While they might not be judged as harshly as the women, ultimately they’re viewed as freaks who make their living with their anatomy. John Holmes’s fate is the ultimate cautionary tale.

Perhaps if we weren’t still so consumed with guilt and shame about sex, neither watching nor performing in these films would carry the burden it does. But then, perhaps we wouldn’t be so enthusiastic about them, either. If the fruit were not forbidden, would anyone care to take a bite?
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